And she had no hesitation, which for those who know Julia may be a surprise. Mom, she explained, if you give her a piece of jewelry, then when she wears it, everyone will see she has something different and be jealous, and she wont' want to be excluded by the other girls that way. But if you give her this perfumed lotion, she can share it with the other girls, and everyone will be happy.
Which is why TCKs make good cross-cultural workers. They get it.